Infidelity is a complex issue. There are several types of
infidelity, and not all types involve physical contact. However, all
occurrences of infidelity are extremely harmful to a relationship.
The signs of infidelity are signs, not proof. Seeing indications
of infidelity in your spouse is extremely stressful, draining and heart
breaking, but they are not conclusive. This is when you need to know the truth.
Knowing IS the beginning of healing.
There have been times where our clients have found signs of
possible infidelity and our investigation indicated that no infidelity was
taking place. A ‘mid life crises’ often produces signs like changes in
appearance and suddenly embarking on an exercise program, without infidelity
taking place. Other problems within a relationship can cause a spouse to pull
away and become more distant, without infidelity being involved.
Shown below are some indications of possible
1. They start wearing a different style of
clothes; a change
2. Starting arguments. Many people who are
cheating in a
relationship will argue or complain more about their spouse in an effort to
justify their behavior. Some people react in the opposite way and become very
3. They are working longer or different hours;
time spent at work, or away from the family.
4. Their clothing smells of perfume or cologne.
5. They are taking more showers than usual.
6. They have more interest in your schedule,
when and where
you will be.
7. They take more “business trips”
secretive or defensive about phone calls and emails.
frequently step outside or into another room to accept phone calls.
10. They Hide credit card charges and cash
11. They pull away from church and extended
12. There is a noticeable change in your sex life.
13. Your intuition tells you something is going on. Don't ignore your gut feelings.